Breathe in. Breathe out. Move on.

What is the revenge we could exact on someone who left us? The best revenge is not taking any revenge at all. Its not even holding on to any anger at all. Its moving on with our Lives, its showing them that life is much better after they’re gone. 

Its easy to blame those who have wronged us for just about everything that is wrong with our life. ‘If it wasn’t them, I would be happy. If it wasn’t for them, I would have achieved it. If they didn’t do this, I would be where I want to be in.’

Most people get so caught up blaming, they continue to blame and sabotage their own life after the person is gone from their life. Most people hold on to the blame because its easier than moving on. Having an excuse or a story of why they aren’t where they want to be gets them sympathy from others. The victim role gives them comfort and its much easier than taking responsibility and moving on with their life. However, it is not, and will never be a happy place to dwell. Those who take responsibility for their life and are wanting to move on put the past behind them are much likely to gain freedom, success and happiness. Now, this does not mean there aren’t horrible people in the world that have done by others. Its not condoning others behavior, it is taking back the power they have from you, when you’re the one suffering long after they are gone.

Who wins if you keep blaming them? Who wins if you move on, forget about them and create the best life and success you could ever imagine? Who wins if you move on? Who wins if you forget about them? Who wins if you create your best ever life, full of success and abundance? YOU WIN!

Take back your power. Blame them for what they have done, but don’t blame them for what you haven’t done. Blame them for what they’ve done but bless them for making you stronger, for making you better. Blame them for what they’ve done but thank them for showing exactly what you don’t want. You can blame the world for bringing them into your life, but then get grateful for all the lessons it taught you, all the strength it gave you, all the perspective it gave you.

 

The best revenge is simply, creating the best version of YOURSELF!

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